Monday, July 12, 2010

Things I have come to love with a newborn!!

**A variety of things I don’t think I could have made it over the past 3 months without!!**

You aren’t that cute – but man you work amazingly!! The Wubbanub is a bit cutter and your owner had definitely learned to “cuddle” with you!

Words cannot express how much you mean to me! You have saved me a few hours of sleep over the past 3 months and I am so grateful. I do not like the fact that you suck the life out of “D” batteries every 2 weeks … but this is an issue I am willing to overlook if you continue to provide some soothing hours of comfort!

My tag team partner, my rock, my controller of sanity at times, the swaddle master … you are a great Daddy and Husband … I know I would not have made it the past 3 months without you beside me!!

My other mommy-friends
Having another mommy around with kiddos the same age as yours give or take a few months to compare notes with can really be an amazing help. I have many but the handful of you in Jacksonville - you'd be surprised what one phone call in the middle of night can do for my sanity, and I appreciate you all for answering!!

Swaddle Blanket

You worked your wonders for a few weeks – but our little Houdini found his ways out of you. Your services were short but you did a great job! We thank you and look forward to using you in the future with our other lil Abbott’s


How I love the variety of ways to use you! For feeding, for helping Landon sit up, for helping make tummy time more enjoyable for Landon and his parents. We apologize for the dogs dragging you across the floor the few times it happened! And might I add – that non-breast feeders enjoy you just as much! It can difficult feeding a squirming baby and having to be in uncomfy positions – you ease this pain!!

PlaymatOh the hours of joy you have brought to your owner! He loves kicking and hitting you! I'm so glad you can take the beating and keep on working so hard! You provide me with a few hours to get chores done! You are thought of very highly in our house! Sorry about the dog hair

Burp Cloth

you are always on my shoulder – I carry you everywhere (for the most part ok) and you have done your job well! It’s not an easy job – I know how that kid can spitup and drool everywhere. We have about 30 of you guys and your work goes not unnoticed.

Travel System

It is sooo nice to have you around – being able to take Landon from the car to the stroller, car to buggy at walmart/target/winn-dixie/etc, car to house while still sleeping … I’m very grateful for your convenience and ease! Not a bad looking thing either!

Huge Diaper Bag
You will never be looked down on because of your size. I can fit half of Landon’s room in you and still have room for my wallet, keys, phone and chapstick – for this I thank you. I want to apologize to you too for dropping you in the muddle puddle – it won’t happen again!

Target Brand (Up&Up)
Diapers – you amaze me at how much pee you can hold! And the price – whew! I thank you!
Formula – Soy formula is by no means cheap (course any formula isn’t cheap) and we appreciate the quantity and price of you!


You are self explanatory and no words can thank you enough

How we haven’t seen each other in awhile – but when we do it is a joyous reunion and you fill my nights with laughter!

Eye concealer
No sleep = dark eyes for me. Concealer= no dark eyes for me. You work wonders!!!

Gas Drops
WOW … it’s amazing what a 1oz bottle can do for a colicky child! You have saved our sanity a few times!! We will continue to buy you in bulk and pray you continue to live up to your name! And thank you equate for being SO MUCH cheaper!

Shampoo/Body Wash combo.
I love that I do not have to juggle different bottles!! And you smell wonderful Magic Wash.

Ibuprofen (Advil or Motrin). Or Aleve.
Or whatever works to cure my headache at the time. Because as much as I love Landon he can give me a headache. And I need a cure. Quickly.

Hot showers
I know I haven’t been conserving you much lately – but those 15 minute hot showers can do an amazing job and gives me back a bit of energy! Not to mention some nice alone time!!

…. I really could go on … maybe a blog #2 will be in the future because I am leaving SO MUCH OUT!!!

Saturday, July 10, 2010

Better late than never .... :)

I was told a few days ago “you never wrote about HAVING Landon” … eh  so here goes!!

Monday, April 5th
Billy, Mom and Moi headed to the doc office for a semi routine visit (by semi routine – we knew Landon was breech – had been for like 4 months and NOTHING we tried seemed to work – so we were told on the 5th come in and we will talk about manually turning him or c-section – I was hoping for the turning). I had a headache for the past 2 days and when they checked my blood pressure it was WAY up for me, then when they did the ultrasound to see how big he was they estimated he was 8lbs 10oz – sooo we were informed no go on the turning c-section it would be and because my BP continued to go up they were admitting me NOW. Talk about BP going higher! I was in freak out mode! I had packed a bag but was thinking “yea they will tell me to come in tomorrow or Wednesday for all this” … so the wheelchair came out and off I went to the “birthing floor” as a friend called it ha!! So much for the cookout we had planned ha!

Monitors everywhere – BP still high up and I was told if it did not come down within the hour a c-section would be done that night! So I started chilling out some, BP started going down and all was “ok”. After awhile Billy took Mom out to eat and then back home so she could get some things done for us and for herself then Billy would go back home in the morning to get her.

Billy and I talked all night – he knew I was soooooo nervous!! He let me talk his ear off about the most random topics!! What a great supporter!!

Tuesday April 6th
Billy got up around 5 headed out to get Mom – while they were gone I got super sick (yea I was sick the ENTIRE pregnancy ugh ugh ugh hope the next one is better) and the nurse that came in to prep me – wow she was amazing – holding my hair letting me lean against her :) haha! It was not a cute sight! After my prepping – mom and Billy showed up! Got Billy “suited” up and I was walked back to the delivery room. They told Billy it would be about 5-10 minutes to get me situated and then he could come into the room. WELL … putting the epidural in was a bit more complicated than what I had expected and apparently what the anesthesiologist thought ha! I have scoliosis and on the first “stick” pain shot thru my whole right side and I reached back to slap the needle away – I thought they were going to put me in a straight jacket!! Had a Jacksonville University nursing student holding my hands after that (and I had a head cold still and I was crying from the pain – sooo snot and tears were all over my face and that gal was just wiping them away left and right!!!!) and she would try to shove me backwards so that my back would arch more (kinda hard to do that when you have a exercise ball sitting in your stomach). After the 5th attempt (yea 5 tries and oooohhhh mercy me I was in some pain) the anesthesiologist – who was just an amazing woman – came around said her apologizes for the pain (not their fault by any means – my back has always been an issues and I was totally forewarned about this being an issues regardless of c-section or not) and then tells me she is going to shove me has hard as she can and I am to shove her back – well I’m kinda pissed and hurting at this point so NO PROBLEM!! She shoves … I shove needled apparently went in because my whole body went warm and numb!

WHEW that ordeal over

Up with the “curtain”, in comes a very worried Billy and 16 minutes later they laid Landon on my chest!!!! It was amazing to see him and love on him before he was taken to the nursery! Billy said being in the nursery was the best feeling!! I was sooo thrilled he got to go in there and be with Landon during that time! I felt tugs and pulls and then when they pulled him all the way out it felt like I was on a rollercoaster and it dropped to the bottom super fast – I looked over at the nurse and said “ima throw up” … never seen a lady put in meds in an IV so fast!!

Back in the room I was greeted by Omi (my mom!), Billy and Billy’s best friend Berry. They were all so excited and saying congrats and all I could do was ask for something to throw up in! OHHH how I was so over all that noise ha!! It lasted for about an hour – then all was good!

They brought Landon in to our room that afternoon and we began to love on him right away!! I couldn’t get out of the bed so dealing with the diapers and feeding were on Billy, Mom and at the time Berry hahaha!! Billy changed his first diaper (with SOME help from Omi) and the look on his face was priceless!!

That night we sent Landon to the nursery (we did that each night so that we could get rest! We knew it would be awhile before we would have this chance to sleep alone again!!) and Billy took Mom out to eat again and then back home and he came back to the hospital to stay with me! It was super surreal and both of us, again, talked almost all night haa!!

Wednesday April 7th
The brought Landon back in after his circumcision – he was unhappy for a few hours but calmed down after awhile and was snoozing like a newborn ;). Billy went to change his diaper for the first time after circumcision and kinda freaked out with what he saw and said “nope – can’t change it”. So diaper duty went to Mom!!

That night the lactation consultant came in and we TRIED to the nursing! Landon didn’t want to latch on and after a few hours of him screaming till his face was red I told them I was done with that and to bottle feed after that and I’ll deal with the nursing later. I know that a few people that know who are very adamant about nursing were not impressed with my decision on that but ummm that’s what it is – my decision.

Doc came by and told me that they wanted to keep me till Friday – but I stressed to them that I had tons of help at home and that my mother was a nurse and she could handle me hha!! Sooo they agreed I could go home on Thursday! YAY!! I was able to take a shower – thank ya laud! And slept great that night, Mom stayed that night so that Billy could go take care of some work issues before we came home from the hospital.

Thursday April 8th
Landon passed his hearing test in record time – she said it was a fast time haha! I just like to embellish because I think my kid is pretty dang amazing! HAHA! After that Mom and I started packing up the room and all the goodies we had received over the few days and were ready to hit the road!!

For some random reason when we got in the car and she pulled out of the hospital parking lot I had NO CLUE where I was!! My mind was absolutely mush – soooo we turned right and drove till we saw an overpass haha!! Worked for us!!

The nurses and all the staff treated me sooooo wonderfully! They were also amazing towards Billy and my Mom! Bringing back extra trays of food, brining in extra blankets and pillows, giving them free food coupons to the cafĂ© … I seriously could go on about how great they were!!! It was very very comforting to know they were taking care of and they didn’t have to worry about much.

I was happy to be home and in my own bed! We kept Landon in our room in a bassinet for the first 2 weeks – after that he slept in the curb! I don’t see how some parents sleep with their kids – every little sound or move I heard come from Landon I would wake up! I had enough of that and off to his bed he went! Billy and I both slept sooo much better after that – and still do!

So there ya have it – a nutshell (ok not really) of what went down getting our lil guy into the world!!

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Little behind on this!

Coral and Landon Playing!

Wonderful Weekend of Reflection

What a great weekend we had! Beach, family fun and good times with great friends! Landon had a good time playing with Coral – she as you can tell is a big girl and doesn’t take much off Landon!! She is a doll and I cannot wait till they can interact more with each other! Landon is really starting to pay attention to others around him … when Billy starts talking he will start looking around for him!! It is soooo cute!!

Landon was trying to get "fresh" with Coral!

He doesn't care for girl's holding his hand apparently!! COOTIES!!

Love their Wubbanubs! 

We went to the beach on Saturday and Landon did great! He slept most of the time there but I think he enjoyed it still :-) Billy grilled for us gals and Jayme was a really brave about diving into the cold ocean water without any hesitation – I had to wait till I was numb!! Jay is having a good time- or so she says ha! And it was been amazing having someone to help us out especially on days I work really late. Not having to worry about who is going to watch Landon for us is a huge weight off of us both!

Me and the sista Jayme

My lil fella!

My two fellas!

Ready for some beach time

Lasted a good 10 minutes then out for the afternoon

Me and my "main" fella!

Six years ago yesterday (7-5-04) I walked away (ok walked away isn’t the right word – carried off on stretcher but lived is better) from an accident that many thought that I was dead in when they arrived at the scene. My Mom included. It was a long and grueling two years to follow after that day and I still have physical “issues” that do not allow me to do things that I once was able to do with ease. I know where I was in my life at that point and I know that God knocked me around to show that he could and to show that I needed to straighten up. He got my attention. He got my attention in many many ways that day. I was never one to take things or people for granted before this wreck and I have certainly not been that person since. It’s amazing what God can do to show you he is in control.

My Kia Sportage ... she had just got a new windshield :(

Kia's are amazing!

Landon is 3 months old today!! I’ll have to get a pic of him today for his 3 month mark :-) and post. I cannot believe he is that old already – hate that expression but it’s true that time does fly!